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Showing posts with label Tammy Stines. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tammy Stines. Show all posts

16 April 2012

An Important Question

Anyone who has travelled with me will not be surprised to know that I have a perpetual packing list. I'm still not at all comfortable travelling, and I have to be prepared for every eventuality in order to minimise my anxiety when I leave home. This is known to the rest of the world as "over-packing." Mock if you want, but the other option is to stay home where I know all my stuff is. So I accept my over-packing and I get out of my rut and I go. Call it a coping mechanism.


My roommate for the 2006 build in India, Tammy has travelled with me on many occasions now, and is the only person I know with whom I can travel for a week and still have something to talk about on the way to the airport to go home. One day I'm going to make her a trophy for that talent.


In 2008, neither of us were able to make the Carter Work Project, so she asked me to go on a mission trip with her church to build a dental clinic in Guatemala instead. (This was actually the trip that got me over my white-knuckle fear of flying, from which I graduated to just being very, very bad at flying.) We roomed together on the trip, which required a GREAT deal of patience on her part. I felt I made up for being a pain in the ass a little bit because whenever she needed something she hadn't packed, I was able to accommodate her from my enormous array of luggage. It's a long story, but I even had a soccer ball and a slinky.


One day, she asked if I had a comb. "A comb? You didn't even pack a comb?" Tammy unapologetically explained her strategy: "I knew I didn't have to pack much, since you'd have everything." Huh. Not just a hat rack.


So, on this perpetual packing list, I've collected some quotes and poems and one joke that I like to review when I'm travelling to alleviate my anxiety. (To take some of the suspense out of it, I now e-mail my packing list du voyage to Tammy shortly before we go anywhere together. Now it's over-packing for the good of the many.) The joke is from Reader's Digest, the back-issues of which I read voraciously all summer long as a child, which may explain my digest-sized attention span now. As I'm getting ready for a Carter-cation today, I reread the joke, and it put me in mind of last year's Haiti build. And, for no other reason than that, I'm sharing it here...





IN A REMOTE VILLAGE in Sierra Leone, West Africa, I befriended Alpha, one of the local men on our building crew.

Alpha was impressed with my tool set and was amazed to find a woman working in construction. He'd bring extra rice and greens for lunch and we'd sit and talk. He asked about my husband, and I told him I wasn't married.

Alpha said he wanted sons and that he would marry soon. He wondered whether I'd stay in his country, and then surprised me by saying he had an important question for me. 

I was nervous about his impending marriage proposal, and the next day Alpha was solemn as he asked if I was ready to answer his question. I nodded. "When you go back to America," he said, "may I have your trowel? "  

— "All In a Day's Work"

03 November 2011

And, we're off...

Today is Thursday, today is Thursday,
Thursday ROAST BEEF,
Wednesday so-oup,
Tuesday spaghetti,
Monday string beans,
all my fellow campers, we wish the same to you.

I’m at the point of no return now. I’ve left the cozy confines of my Buffalo home with just what I could carry on my back. And in my carry-on. And in two kinda-substantial suitcases.

I’m in Atlanta for now. Usually on Carter Work Projects, I’ve gone to the country of the build and spent a while looking around (acclimating to heat and time zone as well) before meeting up with my fellow campers at registration on Sunday of the build week. I even did that when the CWP was in LA.

Security concerns about and conditions in Haiti have made everything about this CWP different. Atlanta is the weigh station. We will register and have opening ceremonies in Atlanta on Saturday, for on Sunday we wing to Haiti on two charter flights. We are not allowed to find our own way to Haiti. We are not allowed to leave campus once we arrive, except to be bused a short distance away to the build site (no, Tammy, you wouldn’t be allowed to walk there). And, of course, there are the platform tents that we’re sleeping in. With the mosquitos. And the spiders.

Part of my prep work included spraying down what clothes I knew I’d be taking to Haiti with Permethrin, an insect repellant. For the first time, the Volunteer Manual warned us to insect-proof our clothes because the mosquitos are so bad. Mosquito nets for everyone at night. I think that the clip light I used for getting safely to and from the bathroom on the Canal Tour this summer might not get that particular use here – once I’m in the mosquito net, I’m sure I’m not going to want to leave it. Apparently the plethora of spiders still isn’t enough to control the mosquito population adequately, so I lined up all of my clothes and sprayed chemicals on them, “paying extra attention to waistbands, cuffs and socks,” in what turned out to be not-as-well-ventilated an area as I had hoped. My master bathroom will not be having a mosquito problem any time soon. Nor my lungs.

I spent the last few days in Buffalo saying goodbye (despite my attempts to get past flying/travel anxiety, I still firmly believe that I am doomed on every trip). I also spent it copying my photo ID (for when my passport gets stolen) and photographing my luggage (for when it gets lost, so I don’t have to try to explain what a Hockey Night in Canada hockey bag looks like, old logo, to someone in Georgia). I also had to head back to Valu Home Center – I had purchased the usual tools that we bring on these things, only to get an e-mail suggesting a different set of tools. We’ll be using screwdrivers? Really? I can actually DO that…

Come time to check in, a lesson learned in Germany paid off: just pay online for the second suitcase, already, because you know you’re going to need it, and it’s too much of a hassle to change at the airport. And I did, which is good, because I did. Pay for it, and need it. I could have kept everything underweight in one suitcase, if I wasn’t bringing extra tools and workboots to leave with Habitat, plus Carter campaign buttons and Sharpies and extra-wide masking tape (which I’ll explain later), and a sleeping bag and pillows (yes, plural, or I’ll snore), and if we could do laundry at the build and I only had to bring two sets of work clothes instead of six. And an extra (and kinda heavy) bottle of Permethrin, because at registration Habitat is giving us three T-shirts to wear for the build, so we’ll have to treat those Saturday night at the well-ventilated hotel before we go.

So, I’ve come early to Atlanta, perhaps moreso that I could finally STOP packing than for any other reason. I’ve offered my time to volunteer for Habitat in organising registration, but with only a fraction of the usual number of volunteers able to go, I take it their lack of response means they have it under control. So I’ll do what I usually do in Atlanta – quality time at the Hrib Crib, visit the Carter Center, probably the World of Coke, maybe I’ll actually make it to the aquarium.  It’s not quite the discovery of a new country that usually precedes a build, but it does involve all the Coke Zero I can consume on the premises.

Home of Crack Bacon

Where I'm Going, and Where I've Been




Crack bacon keeping me busy!


The repacking begins...


04 July 2011

Whaaat? No Bath & Body Works Orange Ginger??

When I did the CWP in Lonavala, India in 2006, we stayed at Velvett Country (life is cheap in India; spelling is cheaper). Velvett Country is a resort, with meditation paths and tennis courts and a masseuse on-staff. Of course, we left before 6 every morning and returned after dinner every night, so we partook of none of that, but there was a lovely deck around the pool large enough to accommodate all of the volunteers as we reviewed the day’s events after sunset. I could catch Sabres highlights on CNN World Sports in my room.

For the CWP in Los Angeles in 2007, we stayed at the LAX Marriott. There were 6 pillows on my bed, and I still use Bath & Body Works Orange Ginger products after using the samples we got as toiletries every day. There was a Starbucks in the lobby and Wifi all around.

In 2008, I went instead on a mission trip with the Lovely Lane Methodist Church, to build a dental clinic in San Juan La Laguna, Guatemala. We stayed in lovely cabins right on the lake, and had homemade dinners with a family who lived nearby every night. The hot water setup was questionable, but the view was fabulous. A little boy I sponsor in Guatemala draws me a picture of the mountain we were looking at with every letter he sends.

The CWP in Chiang Mai, Thailand in 2009 involved a long bus ride to the site, which gave us a chance to wake up before arriving at the build site, marking our time in the sun’s rise over the pictures of the King which were affixed everywhere along the route. The hotel had in-room internet so I could argue with my publisher, beautiful teak wood everywhere, and, well, a mall attached, which also included a Starbucks and was showing “2012.” Massages were $11. Hot oil massages were $13.

Haiti is going to be different. Muuuuuch, much different.

My friend Karen Haycox works for Habitat for Humanity International, and has posted a bit on Facebook about the conditions there. First and foremost: security. Karen wrote about how she was always met at the airport by someone to take her where she was going. It wasn’t the royal treatment – it was a necessity. Whereas on all my other trips I have gone early to see the country (and acclimate to the heat before the build), there’s no traveling alone in Haiti. The volunteers will meet in Atlanta first for the Opening Ceremonies, then take charter planes to Haiti and be shuttled directly to the campus together. No shopping, no wandering into town for a beer after a hard day. We’ll only know we’re in Haiti because we won’t actually get to see Haiti (nightly entertainment brought to the campus aside).

Second: pillows. We may or may not get pillows, but we certainly won’t get six of them. Or maid service. Or Starbucks. We will be sleeping in 6-person tents, which I expect are actually a lot nicer than the tents our homeowners were living in before they were accepted to the project. Now, I’ve had powerful good luck with roommates on these builds (Tammy Stines three times, solo once), but Tammy puts up with me being a slob and there’s no guarantee that the other four people will. And six people sweating all day in the hot sun sleeping in an enclosed area with a single fan… well, that brings up…

Three: water. In India the hot water lasted for about 45 seconds and in Guatemala the hot water heater controls were suspended inside the shower, held up only by bare, live wires. Thailand had no hot water problems, and LA of course had Orange Ginger bath products. Haiti will have — a bucket. Portajohns, to be sure, but no running water. We will each get a bucket of water every day for bathing. Not my preferred form of hygiene to begin with, but after a day of working on a build in the hot sun, crusted with mortar or paint flecks, covered with several layers of sunblock and sweat… I may pack a scrub brush. Certainly we’ll all be in the same boat, and will all smell equally bad, but the problem comes on the trip home. After we take charter planes back to Atlanta, people are going to get on connecting flights. And sit next to perfectly innocent, bathing people who are not going to like this one bit. I’m planning on asking my friend Sue to pick me up in Atlanta (after covering her car seats in garbage bags) and let me spend a couple of hours in her shower before I’m fit for sitting next to anyone.

Four: Wifi. This was kind of a surprise. Turns out you can’t go anywhere without Wifi. This is a blitz build let by a former US President, with a couple more brave celebrities backing him up, and great publicity for Habitat for Humanity International. There won’t be as many members of the media present as there were in, say, Los Angeles, but media will be there, and they’ll need the internet. So there will be a computer tent (I expect, along with the First Aid tent, one of the few air conditioned places to be found). And we’ll have some power strips for charging iPhones and iPads. So, if I can bear to touch my favourite electronics with my grimy hands, I get to blog from the site. And maybe even catch some Sabres highlights online.

This is going to be a challenging build, reminiscent of the early days of Habitat when volunteers would be put up in churches and schools for the builds, but without the convenient plumbing that those facilities proudly boast. Given the fundraising requirement (India’s registration was $800; Haiti volunteers need to raise $5000), only the most committed volunteers will be there. The challenges are what make this build so enticing: pushing myself to physical extremes; bonding with a new house crew and tent-mates; learning enough Creole to converse with the homeowners and learn about their experiences with the earthquake (note to self: learn “earthquake” in Creole, or this could get confusing); packing what I’ll need without overpacking like an idiot. Only four more months to work on that packing list…